Working Motherhood in Marin - The Juggle Is Real
School ends at 3. Your workday ends at 5. Summer break lasts 10 weeks. And somehow, you're still expected to be calm, present, and crushing it at both. This post dives into the very real (and often invisible) pressures placed on working moms in Marin—and why it’s not about “balance,” but about systems that were never built to support us.
If you're feeling the weight of the juggle, you’re not alone—and you don’t have to carry it alone either.
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Raising Wild Ones
Mothering a wild one is exhausting, beautiful, and often lonely. In a world quick to judge but slow to support, this post explores the unseen labor, deep love, and resilience it takes. You are not alone—read more here.
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Spring in Marin - Mom Edition
Longer days, blooming hills, and fresh farmers' markets—spring in Marin is here! Whether you're exploring with the kids, meeting a friend for coffee, or sneaking in some solo time, this guide has everything you need.
From family-friendly hikes to local events and outdoor dining, discover the best ways to eat, play, and recharge this season—while supporting local!
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Rage Against the (Summer Camp) Machine
Summer camp sign-ups feel like an impossible game, one where moms are forced to compete, strategize, and scramble just to secure basic childcare. Costs are sky-high, spots vanish in seconds, and for kids who struggle with transitions? The chaos only multiplies.
I’ve seen this frustration in every mom circle I’m part of, and this year, I’m living it myself. So let’s talk about why the system is broken—and why we shouldn’t just accept it.
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EMDR & Matrescence: Centering the Mother’s Story
Motherhood is a profound transformation—one that reshapes identity, emotions, and the way we move through the world. EMDR is a powerful tool that helps mothers process the emotional shifts of matrescence, making space for healing, self-understanding, and growth. In this post, we’ll explore how EMDR supports moms in centering their own stories, rather than getting lost in the demands of caregiving. Read on to learn how this approach can help you navigate the complexities of motherhood with greater clarity and resilience.
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8 Tips to Ease Your Return to Work After Parental Leave
Returning to work after parental leave can be daunting, but with the right preparation, it can feel much more manageable. Here are essential tips to help you transition more smoothly.
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The Challenge of Making Mom Friends
Motherhood changes everything—including friendships. Why do connections feel harder, and how can we build meaningful ones in this season of life? Dive into my latest blog for reflections, tips, and inspiration to find your village and nurture the friendships that matter most.
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Between Generations - - Navigating the Holidays When You’re in the Middle
For those in the sandwich generation, the holidays can feel overwhelming—balancing kids’ excitement, parents’ needs, and shifting traditions. This post explores the challenges of being “in the middle” and offers reflections on holding what truly matters.
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What Kids’ Shows Teach About Fair Play and the Mental Load
Parenting comes with a hefty mental load—planning meals, managing schedules, and keeping everything on track. Surprisingly, kids’ shows like Bluey, Peppa Pig, and Daniel Tiger’s Neighborhood reflect these dynamics, offering lessons on teamwork, fairness, and shared responsibilities.
As a Fair Play Method facilitator, I see these shows as a great way to start conversations about balancing the load at home. Let’s explore how they can inspire a more supportive and equitable family dynamic.
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Parenting in Marin: How to Build Your Own Village
Are You Searching for Your Village in Marin? Whether you’ve lived in Marin your whole life or you’re new to the area, finding your “village” is key to navigating the ups and downs of parenthood.
This blog is your guide to creating a supportive network of friends, fellow parents, and resources in Marin County. From mom-friendly meetups and local parenting groups to toddler activities and coffee spots where connections happen, you’ll find everything you need to start building the community you deserve. Your village is waiting—let’s find it together.
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The Invisible Work of the Holidays
The holidays come with a lot of unseen work—planning, organizing, and managing it all. If you’re feeling the weight, it’s time to recognize that load and find ways to share it.
Read more about naming hidden roles and lightening the load this season.
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When It All Feels Like Too Much - Coping in Uncertain Times
Motherhood is a journey filled with love and joy, but it can also feel heavy, especially during uncertain times. If you’re navigating overwhelm, stress, or the pressures of a world that doesn’t always value the work of mothering, this post is for you.
Discover practical tips, moments of encouragement, and reminders to care for yourself as you care for others. Let’s explore how to find strength and connection, even when it all feels like too much.
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Self-Care Isn’t a Product—It’s a Practice: How to Build a Practice of Opting In and Out
Self-care has become a buzzword tied to quick fixes and products, but real self-care runs deeper. This blog explores how true self-care means opting in for what nourishes you and opting out of the pressures that drain you. It’s not about doing more—it’s about making intentional choices that align with your well-being.
Discover how self-care can be a practice of saying yes to joy and no to burnout, and why prioritizing yourself is essential, not selfish.
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Living in the Loud: Navigating Overstimulation in Motherhood
Motherhood can be overwhelming with constant noise, chaos, and demands. This blog explores what overstimulation feels like and offers practical strategies to manage it. Learn how to identify your triggers, take small moments for relief, and ask for support when needed. Dive in for realistic ways to navigate motherhood without letting the overwhelm take over.
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Moms Need Other Moms Now More Than Ever: Where the F*ck is My Village?
Motherhood today often feels more isolating than ever, with the traditional village of support seemingly disappearing. In my latest blog post, I dive into why moms need each other now more than ever, how the mental load of motherhood has intensified, and the ways we can rebuild that much-needed community.
Read the full post and start building your village!
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Navigating Family Transitions - Matrescence Edition
Motherhood is full of transitions, both for our families and for ourselves. In my latest post, "Navigating Family Transitions - Matrescence Edition," I explore how matrescence shapes these changes and offer practical tips for guiding your family through them.
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Protecting Your Mental Health During Election Season: A Therapist’s Guide
I’m not sure about you but I’ve been having A LOT of election-related feelings this week. From excitement and hopefulness to worry, stress and total information overload. Check out my latest blog for tips on managing anxiety and staying grounded during this election season.
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Navigating the Division of Labor in New Parenthood: The Role of Fair Play
Feeling the weight of new parenthood? This blog post delves into the complexities of balancing responsibilities as a new mom and introduces the Fair Play system as a tool for creating more fairness and clarity at home. Whether you're struggling with the mental load or just looking for ways to make life a bit more manageable, this post offers practical advice and insights to support you during this challenging time. Take a moment to read on—you deserve it.
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Embracing Matrescence - Insights from a Matrescentric Therapist
Motherhood is a transformative journey that goes beyond the joy of welcoming a new baby. It involves a profound process called matrescence—a term that captures the psychological, emotional, and physical shifts that occur as you transition into your new role. In this blog post, we’ll delve into the stages of matrescence, explore its impact on mental health, and discuss how understanding this transition can provide valuable support. Join me as we uncover the complexities of matrescence and discover how to navigate this pivotal phase of motherhood with insight and compassion.
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Rebranding Mommy Brain
Discover the truth behind "mommy brain" in my latest blog post! Let’s flip the script on cognitive shifts in mothers, and see them for what they are - signs of incredible adaptability and strength that moms possess. Dive into the fascinating science behind the maternal brain changes and celebrate the transformative journey of motherhood. Say goodbye to stereotypes and hello to empowerment – it's time to redefine mommy brain!
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